Many men are familiar with the idea of looking after their partner’s sexual and erotic needs before they look after their own. Often expressed as ‘I really like pleasing or pleasuring my partner’. Often this is a great turn on for the one doing the pleasing. For many men this approach is the only one they’ve ever known and the main one taught at all the important sex education classes such as lunch in the playground and at drunken friends parties? This workshop will show you a greater landscape of erotic pleasure that expands on the roles that partners can play with one another. It will invite you to really begin to consider what you would like for yourself. We will look at the required communication and interactions that might lead to a different sex life.